OK, here's the deal. Things really aren't working between me and my girlfriend anymore. We've been together about 2 1/2 years and have lived together for 2 of that. That's not really my problem. My problem lies in the fact that everything she has is mine. She doesn't have a car, she drives one of mine around. I bought her cell phone and it's attached to my contract. Our apartment is leased in my name. How do I not only break up with her but kick her out, take back my car and her phone at the same time. I should note I haven't completely been supporting her. She pays half the rent and has car insurance in her name on my car that she drives, and pays like a quarter of our other mutual bills. I don't know how to do this without being an ass, but I originally let her borrow my car when her old car died, with the understanding that she'd save up for a new car. She hasn't been saving. Its been a year. How do I take everything back from her? And am I a jerk for even asking?